so live for today
The closer you get to the top, the more you’ll find there is no “top.”
There is only one success- to be able to spend your life in your own
way. Everyday is full of decisions – questions that create crossroads
in life- every decision you make affects who you will be, and more
importantly, who you are. These forks in the road make you, break
you, and take you for a ride. Follow your heart, and choose your
path carefully because sometimes the walk back is just too far. Ive
learned that things change, people change, & it doesn’t mean you
forget the past or try to cover it up. It simply means that you move
on & treasure the memories. Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, it
means accepting that some things weren’t meant to be. You don’t
ever stop loving someone; if you do, you probably never really
loved them. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the
moment & making the best of it, without knowing whats going to
happen next. Take chances; life is not fun without them! If you screw
up at least you learned something. You have to take the good with
the bad, smile with the sad, love what you have, and remember what
you had, always forgive, but never forget, learn from your mistakes,
never regret, people change, things go wrong, just remember
life goes on. Eventually everything will fall into place. Until then…
laugh at the confusion, live for the moment, and know that
everything happens for a reason. I’ve learned that even the one
person that wasn’t supposed to ever let you down probably will. You
will have your heart broken more than once and it’s harder every
time. You’ll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours
was broken. You’ll fight with your best friend. You’ll blame a new
love for things an old one did. You’ll cry because time is passing so
fast and you’ll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many
pictures, laugh too hard, and love like you’ve never been hurt,
because every minute you spend mad or upset is a minute of
happiness that you’ll never get back. I don’t really care what anyone
thinks about me, my good friends know me and really that’s all that
matters. We come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by
learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. Only after we have
lost everything, are we free to do anything… Throw things out there
and not be perfect and not have answers to anything and see if
people understand. Love one person, take care of them. Love them
most when they deserve it least because that’s when they need it
most. Take time to find out what it is that you need in order to feel
happy alone.
